Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Clues That He's Into You

By Samantha Sanderson

Women, do you wonder how to figure out the clues that he likes you? You're not alone, because many women miss more than a few of the actual physical signs a man exhibits when he likes a woman. Maybe the good-looking guy at the office who's been greeting you with a casual "hi" hopes to turn that into a bit more down the road. If you don't know the indicators, though, you'll have to work a bit harder at figuring them out. They're not too difficult to pick up on, if you follow a few simple steps.

Most clues, when it comes to men, revolve around body language. Guys being who they are, most of them would never just come right out and say it, so you have to learn to decode a few signs. First of all, a man who really likes you tends to raise his eyebrows and smile when he sees you. This is an almost subconscious response in humans. It also can be very brief, so watch closely for it.

People who have come to like someone else will often orient themselves in the direction of that other person, especially the hands and the feet. So the next time you and that certain fellow are in close proximity to one another, check to see if his hands or feet are pointing towards you. If so, then you've found your man.

A third sign that's almost a dead giveaway is that he'll be gazing at your lips if you're engaged in conversation with him. For some reason, when a person is attracted to another, he or she will tend to drop their gaze to areas around the mouth or to the neck or shoulders, maybe. If you're still not sure he's in to you, take a look at his eyes when he's talking to you. Do his pupils look wider and is he blinking more than usual while he's engaged in conversation with you? That's a sure sign he likes you.

Lastly, is he laughing in appreciation at anything you might say? Studies show that nodding and laughing are clear indicators of happiness in being with you, whenever you're around.

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