Sometimes dealing with a break up is difficult. It's rarely easy unless you're so glad to get out of a situation that you can't wait to make changes and move on. A break up disrupts your whole life. Everything you do and see seems to remind you of your ex. If you had many mutual friends, even going out to keep from going stir crazy can be difficult.
One of the hardest things when dealing with a break up and moving on is how your friends and family react. If your family loved your ex, you will get tired of them asking about the break up. You need to let them know that you are dealing with a break up and ready to move on, and that them always reminding you of the past relationship is not helping.
Occasionally dealing with a break up can be difficult for your family, since they keep on talking about your ex in high hopes that you will get back together. Just tell them straight, "I'm moving on, the relationship is over, and that's that".
Eventually they'll come around because they're your family and they love you. It's probably going to be harder to deal with when it comes to your friends.
If you didn't have many mutual friends, then it should be less of a problem dealing with a break up. But if the two of you often hung out with the same group of people, then you going alone to be with those friends is going to seem strange to everyone for a while. And then there's the problem of your ex wanting to hang out with the friends, too.
You may even bump into each other when you around the same friends. Just because you broke up, does not mean you have to lose your friends too. It simply means that it will be hard for you to keep those same friendships after the break up.
As hard as it may be, when you are dealing with a break up and are ready to move on, you may have to end some of those mutual friendships. You and your ex may have to come to an agreement to only hang out will some of those friends.
Sometimes dealing with a break up is just too difficult when you're surrounded by mutual friends and so many places to go together. If possible, go on a vacation to get away from the same scenery and people. Once you're ready for dealing with a break up, then if you can take some time away it can help you a great deal.
One of the hardest things when dealing with a break up and moving on is how your friends and family react. If your family loved your ex, you will get tired of them asking about the break up. You need to let them know that you are dealing with a break up and ready to move on, and that them always reminding you of the past relationship is not helping.
Occasionally dealing with a break up can be difficult for your family, since they keep on talking about your ex in high hopes that you will get back together. Just tell them straight, "I'm moving on, the relationship is over, and that's that".
Eventually they'll come around because they're your family and they love you. It's probably going to be harder to deal with when it comes to your friends.
If you didn't have many mutual friends, then it should be less of a problem dealing with a break up. But if the two of you often hung out with the same group of people, then you going alone to be with those friends is going to seem strange to everyone for a while. And then there's the problem of your ex wanting to hang out with the friends, too.
You may even bump into each other when you around the same friends. Just because you broke up, does not mean you have to lose your friends too. It simply means that it will be hard for you to keep those same friendships after the break up.
As hard as it may be, when you are dealing with a break up and are ready to move on, you may have to end some of those mutual friendships. You and your ex may have to come to an agreement to only hang out will some of those friends.
Sometimes dealing with a break up is just too difficult when you're surrounded by mutual friends and so many places to go together. If possible, go on a vacation to get away from the same scenery and people. Once you're ready for dealing with a break up, then if you can take some time away it can help you a great deal.
About the Author:
Are you feeling hurt and frustrated after your lover left you? Sign up for our FREE "Getting Over A Breakup" E-Course and learn how to move on with confidence. Want a 95% chance of getting them back, no matter what happened? Try the Magic Of Making Up - unique advice that has saved thousands of relationships so far.
0 comments:
Post a Comment