Thursday, November 12, 2009

Sexual Addiction And Its Varying Attitudes

By John Gunthry

Sexual addiction is attributed to varying behaviors. People who undergo any kind of sex addictions leave no stone unturned to fulfill their desires. The many methods they adopt to fulfill their sexual addictions include multiple affairs, unusual sex acts, voyeurism, frequent one night stands and other addictions such as porn addiction and masturbation addiction.

People who do not confront their addiction are usually suspected of engaging in illegal and unlawful activities so that they can satisfy their sexual urges. But in reality they never get enough of all the sexual happenings around them. In fact their actions lead to fueling up of their activities and no matter what they do they are never satisfied. Such people can only be cured if they are brought to the realization that they are addicted to sex and need sexual addiction recovery. Hence, the treatment would only begin when the patient realizes that he is ill and wants to undergo an examination.

The sexual addiction recovery is a two-phase process, the first part solely focuses on controlling the addictive nature by finding and then eradicating the root cause and the second step emphasizes on building a healthy aptitude towards sexuality. This allows improvement in behavior while interacting with the opposite gender and preference of commitments and relationships to other activities such as pornography and masturbation.

Sexual addicts usually find their solace by masturbation or browsing through porn websites. A sex addict is also masturbation and porn addict, a masturbation or porn addict is not necessarily a sex addict. Masturbation is a process in which one is able to enjoy the sexual pleasures with the help of a certain technique, without having to undergo the sexual act and the orgasm is attained faster than usual. This act leads to a regular satisfaction of sexual desires without having to copulate or have a sex. This is ideal as long as you do not have a partner to get intimate too. However, if you do problems begin when you treat sex hastily just like masturbation and fail to allow your partner reach his or her orgasm. This does not quench the thirst of sexual desires of your partner and brings about drastic changes in the relation ship.

No matter whether you are a sex, porn or masturbation addict, you need to take the reigns of your life in your own hands and secure your future by wiping off the addiction from your life. In this regard, sex offender treatment can help you get rid of this vicious circle and you can regain your self-esteem and healthy, happy relationships.

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