Monday, November 30, 2009

When You Need To Know How To Control Anger

By Trevor Johnson

It's a lesson that many people need to know how to do. How to control anger, it's something that I am often highly at fault of doing too. It's really hard when you hold anger in for so long that when it comes out you affect everyone around you in the wrong way.

Though a lot of you out there are saying "that's not me, I don't need an anger management class." Or you might even be saying "I'm never going to talk to a therapist, there's nothing wrong with me." Sorry but if you can't control your anger, you do have a problem.

Not only problems to your health, like too much stress, but also ulcers in some cases. Heart attacks, anxiety attacks and so much more can happen if you don't learn how to control your anger and gradually begin to calm yourself down.

Its lead too many health problems too, high blood pressure and many other things. There are times that I can listen to this advice. While other days I just blow it all off and every time I turn around I'm yelling about something that is just stupid.

Either walk away if you can't react in the right way, or find an activity that will take your frustration out. There are many ways that people will find, sports will work. Something that you can focus on and will tire you out is going to help your anger dissipate at least a little bit.

Many people have problems with anger and it's really a natural thing for you to feel. It's when you can't control the amount of anger that you let off. Find some way that you can to relax and let that tension ease up a bit when you're angry too.

That can be accomplished in many different ways for different people. It could be music, movies, games, or anything else. Your key is finding the right thing that can help you relax and control your anger.

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