Wednesday, December 9, 2009

End Dating Rejection With These 3 Critical Tips

By Chase Chandler

Everybody wants to feel special. You want to be appreciated for who you are. Simply, you want to be loved, especially by the opposite sex. On a date, you always put your best foot forward, with the hope that she will like what she sees in front of her"of course, with the hope as well that a second date may be possible.

But not all things will be to your favor, and you may feel that you are on a bad streak. If you want to end dating rejection, this article will point out 3 important tips that can change your fate.

Tip No. 1: Learn to love yourself. This is what you should do first and foremost. You must first make the necessary changes on the inside, before you even start thinking of having a positive effect on the outside. You should start eliminating negative thoughts, and this can only be done effectively by loving yourself first.

Having learned to love yourself, you will not constantly seek the approval of other people. You will be more confident of who you are and be able to accept who you are not. You will feel good about yourself and this affects greatly how you relate with your dates.

Tip # 2: Don't try to be someone you are not. You are perfect as you are. There is just no use pretending. It will just be a turn-off if you date finds out that you are a great pretender. First impressions are important, but giving false impressions of who you are will not work.

You have to be yourself and be brave to let her decide whether she likes who you really are. Remember, you cant continue pretending all your life. So better let her know the real you early on to prevent things from getting complicated.

Tip 3: Listen to your date. Don't talk too much that may just leave her out with not much chance to share her thoughts. Learn to listen, and listen sincerely that is. Be genuinely interested with what she has to say. Give her the chance to express herself. Not only will you make her feel good, you will be able to get more information about her. So, to end dating rejection, love yourself first, be true to yourself and be genuinely interested with her.

The 3 tips here will give you the edge to successful dating. You will not have to worry about dates going wrong or bad streaks in your dating life. You will find dating to be more fun when you are being true to yourself and being genuinely interested with your date.

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