I have three phrases that I use to absorb a woman into my frame. These phrases have taken my game to another level in-field. Having some stock phrases that are time tested under your belt can add some dynamic to your game.
One of my favorites is the mock-serious "How Dare You!" Using this when a girl does anything outside of your frame helps guide her back into your reality. Say you are talking to an HB 10 and she touches you, or takes a sip of your drink, or dishes a snide remark, having an appalled look on your face with a respnose of "How Dare you!?" Is a sly way to show them who's in charge. Usually this is followed by a laugh and some sexual tension. It shows you have a sense of value to call her out in a playful way. Pointing out her behavior as unacceptable causes them to be aware of themselves and how they are coming across. It's a great way to bust their balls.
Another phrase I use that is excellent for building rapport is "OMG, me too! You're starting to creep me out." Finding commonalities with your target is pivotal when it comes to establishing comfort. I like to play a game in field where I tell a girl that we are going to say our favorite film on the count of three. We say it at the same time to see if we hit a match. I do this with a couple of different scenarios, favorite television show growing up, favorite comedy film, favorite musician, etc. it's a fun game that makes finding common ground fun and interesting. Don't fall into her reality when doing this. Be sure to know the answers to the questions you are going to ask her. Say the name of your favorite movie, and if hers is different, say "OMG, I love that movie too." Then instantly give a reason why or a story that will provide a strong reason for the commonality. What's even more powerful is if you can get your target to say "OMG, ME TOO!" You can be sure you are creating attraction.
the last phrase I use is a tool to re-frame an interaction. Say a woman says shes not going to go home with you, simply look with a smile and say, "I don't believe you!" Refusing to fall into her frame will throw them into a frenzy. She might retort with, "I'm NOT!" If so, simply laugh a little and say, "Look, you don't even believe you!" This will stop them dead in their tracks. Staying strong in your own frame will build amazing attraction.
Enjoy these bits of verbal goodness and watch your game go to the next level -Jonny Cruz
One of my favorites is the mock-serious "How Dare You!" Using this when a girl does anything outside of your frame helps guide her back into your reality. Say you are talking to an HB 10 and she touches you, or takes a sip of your drink, or dishes a snide remark, having an appalled look on your face with a respnose of "How Dare you!?" Is a sly way to show them who's in charge. Usually this is followed by a laugh and some sexual tension. It shows you have a sense of value to call her out in a playful way. Pointing out her behavior as unacceptable causes them to be aware of themselves and how they are coming across. It's a great way to bust their balls.
Another phrase I use that is excellent for building rapport is "OMG, me too! You're starting to creep me out." Finding commonalities with your target is pivotal when it comes to establishing comfort. I like to play a game in field where I tell a girl that we are going to say our favorite film on the count of three. We say it at the same time to see if we hit a match. I do this with a couple of different scenarios, favorite television show growing up, favorite comedy film, favorite musician, etc. it's a fun game that makes finding common ground fun and interesting. Don't fall into her reality when doing this. Be sure to know the answers to the questions you are going to ask her. Say the name of your favorite movie, and if hers is different, say "OMG, I love that movie too." Then instantly give a reason why or a story that will provide a strong reason for the commonality. What's even more powerful is if you can get your target to say "OMG, ME TOO!" You can be sure you are creating attraction.
the last phrase I use is a tool to re-frame an interaction. Say a woman says shes not going to go home with you, simply look with a smile and say, "I don't believe you!" Refusing to fall into her frame will throw them into a frenzy. She might retort with, "I'm NOT!" If so, simply laugh a little and say, "Look, you don't even believe you!" This will stop them dead in their tracks. Staying strong in your own frame will build amazing attraction.
Enjoy these bits of verbal goodness and watch your game go to the next level -Jonny Cruz
About the Author:
Neil Strauss revealed the basis of becoming an powerful pick up artist and wrote them into his best selling book The Game.
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