Monday, October 26, 2009

When You Approach Girls With Your Dignity Intact

By Ai Qin Lee

Being able to approach girls with your dignity intact is a much more effective way to go about approaching them. More guys struggle through the process than you know, but it doesn't have to be that way. In fact, there a few simple facts that can help you approach girls with your dignity intact.

The most important fact that will help you improve your approach is to remember that you can't control the way someone else feels or thinks.

Despite what you might think, you really can't make someone like you or dislike you. They determine those things for themselves.

If you remember this fact, you will also be able to remember that if she turns you down, it has nothing to do with you. She may have opinions about you but they may or may not be true.

Don't get bent out of shape if despite your best approach girls are not interested. There could be all kinds of reasons that a girl just isn't interested. The most common of these is that she already has her eye on someone else. When a girl has someone on her mind she really doesn't even see what is standing in front of her, around her, or beside her.

To keep the focus on the girl, approach her with a gentle greeting followed by a compliment. Don't be cheesy about it, but be honest about why you're trying to approach her.

It means that her response does not indicate in any fashion whether or not you are good enough. If you believe you are good enough before you walked up to her, then you're still good enough when it's all over, no matter what result was achieved.

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