Saturday, January 16, 2010

How To Stop worrying - A Perfect Way

By John Knight

Worrying is the main problem of many people in this world. Many of them worry everyday or many worry every hour. They try to find the solution but cannot get it. Some people worry about money, some about relationship, some about work, some about job, some about health etc.

Some people are so included in worrying every single day that they cannot imagine living without worrying. You want to stop worrying but cannot. You try a lot but cannot come out of it. This is because you do not know how to come out of it. You do not know the methods.

You cannot define worrying. So it means it is just wastage of time. Worrying will make you feel more worry. When you worry more and more negative thoughts come to your mind which in turn takes the form of negative and suicide feelings. And finally it takes the form of depression or similar disease. You will start feeling anxious and miserable. So we will discuss some of the solutions for worrying.

Just remember one thing when you start worrying. Remember that worrying will not give you any solution and it will only make you feel more worried. When you start worrying repeat one thing that is you are wasting your time. This will give you relief. You will start working on the problem and start making plans to solve it. If you will not worry then you will make your plans easily and in less time.

There is a saying of Sri Sri Ravi Shankar Ji, cut the past, shut the future, live in present. Stop worrying about the future and just do right things in present. If you will live in a planned way in present then your future will be also good and there is no need to worry. The most important thing is do exercise and yoga daily. This will give your mind a good relaxation. Meditation is also a very good thing. Understand the benefits of stop worrying.

Think about what worst things can happen to you if you do not solve the problem. It will give you a lot of relief as the results that you will see will not be so much worst. You will see the problem that you are thinking of is not a big problem and you will be able to find the solutions easily.

Here is an example. Suppose you are worried about your money that you are not saving anything for your future. And due to this you will face problems in future. So in this case instead of worrying think how you can save. Make a diary every day about how much you spent. Now after one month or one week see which things wasted your money and the very next month do not send money one the things that you have seen. This will make a big difference.

Worrying can give you a lot of problems and diseases. Many diseases can stick to you. So the best thing is to stop worrying and start working.

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