Sunday, July 26, 2009

Dating Advice For Women: How To Get A Guy To Notice You

By Samantha Sanderson

The topic of this article is made for the single girls out there as I am going to tell you how to get a guy to notice you!

Do you feel as if you are the only one that is single out of your girlfriends?

Are you looking around but just don't know where all the guys that suit you are?

Do you often ask yourself what does it take to catch the one?

Well, I know how you feel because I have been there myself!

If you are a girl who knows that she should get better out of her dating life, then pay attention to what I'm going to tell you because I'm going to show you how to find the right man.

Here are some fantastic tips about how to get a guy to notice you without fail. These tips may sound a little basic, but it is the little things that count.

You have to present yourself in a way that makes you approachable - Did you know that there are many guys out there who are really scared to go up to a girl they don't know and start a conversation with them. You need to make the experience of approaching you very easy because most men experience something known as "approach anxiety" which means it is hard for them to come up and just talk to you. I cannot stress how important it is for you to appear nice and inviting and presenting your body language in this way is important. Men are very sensitive when it comes to rejection, so you have to create a vibe that makes it easy for him to come to you that is why you have to create a positive atmosphere and not give him the wrong impression. You want to be able to ensure that it is easy for the guy to come and talk to you.

Listen to what he has to say - I have heard from many guys that their biggest fear when they approach a girl is that the woman is not interested in what they have to say. So remember, make it easier for the one you are interested in and listen to what he has to say. You have to appreciate that the guy has made the first move, so despite the fact that the convesration may be boring and uninspiring, don't make him feel bad! Give him a chance to impress you and do not embarass him by shutting him down!

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