Saturday, July 18, 2009

Male Secrets Revealed!

By Alan Bentley

Do you wish that there was a book of male secrets, a way to learn without spending a lot of time trying to crack the guy code? Unfortunately you often have to learn "on the fly", as there are no specific guides or training manuals to help you understand why your love behaves so strangely!

Men just appear to want to hide the way that they feel about you. These male secrets can drive you crazy. You can, however, expose one of their secrets quite clearly if you understand that they need downtime from you. They love to have their freedom and will do everything they can to keep it that way. Let them have their "night out with the boys" or golf game with their buddies.

One of the male secrets least often understood by females is that the man wants to feel as if he is the head of the household. Unlike the old days, today both members of a male"female relationship are working and sometimes the female has a significant career that may surpass his. Whilst society typically expects the man to be the supporter of the family, the male ego may also dictate that he is happiest when he is seen as the top provider.

Don't be surprised to see a lack of commitment from your man. One of the male secrets generally hidden from his partner is that he is accustomed to playing the field and will want to be sure he has chosen the right partner for life. This is not a terminal lack of commitment, but may be frustrating for you if you are absolutely sure that he is the one!

Have you ever noticed that your man appears to be paying attention to what you're saying and nods in agreement with you, but when questioned cannot recall what you were saying? They're not really ignoring you, just exhibiting one of their male secrets, which is to appear to be listening attentively so that you are not disappointed in them.

You might think that a wandering eye is one of their male secrets. By their very nature, men will show a certain element of flirtation and this does not mean that they are unreliable or unfaithful. This is not so much a secret as a habit that has grown over the years and although annoying, you should probably learn to live with it.

Whilst there is no book of male secrets available, your intuition should help you draw up your own list of idiosyncrasies. Just have fun and second-guess him at his game!

To ensure the best relationship, each party should keep the other on their toes. So, if you are worried about male secrets, you should counteract the issue, according to experts, with some female secrets of your own!

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