Monday, August 17, 2009

Flirting Tips For Shy Girls - Become Charming And Dynamic Now!

By Samantha Sanderson

It is really tough for young, single shy girls to get out there and meet men. It is difficult enough to meet other people, but men, now that can be a different matter entirely. Flirting tips for shy girls can help. They can turn a shy girl into a charming dynamic person, just by boosting their confidence and letting them know it is actually ok to be shy.

For some bashful girls, the idea of talking to a man who appears interested in her, or who she is interested in, can cause panic. Confidence is key to overcoming this panic! You can still keep your shy persona, after all this is in your personality and will always be part of who you are. The trick is to learning how to be more confident about yourself so you don't panic when a man talks to you or you want to talk to a man.

Smiling naturally and with welcome in your eyes is the first and most important tip you need to master. It does not have to be an extrovert, model like smile, just a simple natural smile, like when you think of something you really love! The smell of the sea or flowers, or how much your puppy loves you is good enough. Smiling makes you approachable and allows a guy to know that you are interested in talking to him.

Flirting includes the use of subtle body language; you don't have to let your boobs hang out to show you are interested in someone. It can be extremely subliminal and is a very natural part of life. It allows people to know you are attracted to them and are encouraging them to approach you. A shy girl is generally perceived by a man to be a respectable girl and this is the kind of woman he will want to make his wife.

Flirting can be incredibly subtle; it does not have to be all out there and extravagantly extrovert. Flirting is an art form with no written laws defining it. Of course being confident helps, but you are still able to retain your aura of shyness while being confident. For instance being confident in what you are wearing, and being confident enough to believe that flirting comes as a natural response when you like a man.

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