Monday, August 17, 2009

Here Are Some Dating Tips Just For Men

By Chase Chandler

In general, the whole concept of the dating game is quite a challenge for most guys, basically because the fact remains that women are complex characters that men find hard to please. With this regard, this article came into being with the hope of helping guys ease out their concerns and perplexities about dating.

Nobody has absolute answers to questions about women. But this is fortunate instead, so as not to get rid of the alluring mystery that goes with being a woman.

Anyways, these dating tips for guys will assist you in getting the woman of your choice. Here, you will be taught the proper way to dress and to act during a date, among others.

If you make it right, you will be on your way to a successful relationship.

Regardless of you situation, whether a guy who has been single for years, never been on a date yet, or just come out from a broken relationship, you will be benefited with these common guidelines that work well in the dating arena.

Rule number one: look your very best. Sport just the right clothes and shoes. You may not be aware of it, but women pay attention not only to your clothes but to your shoes as well. So be sure you have the right pair that complements your attire. Also, ascertain you are wearing pieces that bring out your best features.

Personal Hygiene

Never forget that personal hygiene is vital. It is important that you look clean and fresh all the time. Have your hair cut if necessary. If you want, you can always ask for professional help to help you get the style that you want. If you have long hair, then maybe it is about time you allow a pair of scissors to do wonders with it and give it a new look, or if you have a bald head, nothing beats the luster after a professional shave.

Professionals are readily available to assist you. Again, hygiene is overly important. Make it part of your daily routine to take a shower daily. Stay fresh each and every day.

A Real Life Hero

Read books about manners, chivalry and courtesy. You should know that a woman's melting point is when treated with utmost respect. Be a gentleman and make her feel extra special. Forget all trace of rudeness. Act properly around her. Be knowledgeable about women's stuff such as fashion, jewelries, and bags.

Just know something about these things. No need to memorize the entire magazine or whatever; just enough to make a conversation.

Additionally, take the time to absorb current events. Being knowledgeable on wide array of topics makes excellent impression. It also makes you appear more intellectual and witty.

Punctuality is a Must

Never be late on a date. Come on time. Otherwise, she will think that you are uninterested or unreliable. Remember, coming late is a big no-no. If you want to win her trust, always be punctual.

Arrive five minutes early if you pick her up at her house. But not too early though for she does not want to be seen "half finished" with her looks.

Furthermore, do not forget to throw neat remarks on your date. Women love this. Just make sure that you mean it and that it is not offensive or too much so as not to annoy or irritate her.

Have a two-way conversation. Do not steal all the limelight with the intention of impressing her. Listen to her story as well. You ask questions in order for you to know her more.

To impress a girl, you do not have to talk endlessly about you. Rather, learn to talk and listen at the same time. You have to hear her side you know. Be a listener as well and be a good one.

Show Me The Money

It is an unspoken rule that guys should pay the date. But in today's time, more and more women have become independent and want to take liability on their share of the date. If you date such woman, you may argue with her about it. If she agrees to let you pay, then do so. But if not, at least shoulder half of the whole bill.

To kiss or not to kiss; be careful with this. Most girls do not agree with kissing on the first date, even goodnight kisses. Pay attention to any signal she may be throwing at you, for there are also women who will be disappointed when not kissed.

To find out if she wants to be kissed or not, read her gestures. Or, wait if she will initiate.

Do not forget to ask her number if you wish to go out with her again. But if not, then do not promise anything so she will not be living with false hopes. Be a gentleman though and thank her for the time she spent with you. On the other hand, if you aspire to see her again, see to it that she knows.

Dating is a whole new experience that can open up wonderful opportunities. With these dating tips and by doing things right, you have greater chances of a happy and memorable dating escapade.

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