Saturday, September 12, 2009

Reading Body Gestures In Women

By Dell DeMarco

Messages can be conveyed in many ways, not only with words. Body language for one is among them.

Isn't it cool if you know how to interpret body language? By then, you can tell how a person feels towards you in particular. Or even with the absence of words, you still get the message. To help you read the signs, here are ways to comprehend body gestures.

To interpret body languages easier, you must first know what each factor presents. These factors include eye contact, posture, and body contact.

Eye to Eye Contact

Among the others, this particular aspect is regarded as the most powerful. It may be direct or indirect, and duration varies from short to long.

However, looking at a person straight in the eyes for sometime may be perceived as staring. Take note, this can be uneasy for the other person.

Meanwhile, if a person is comfortable enough with whom he is talking to, he can keep eye contact. But if a person is guilty of something, or afraid or uncomfortable, he cannot maintain eye contact.

Position

How you stand, sit or move say so much about you. Is confidence one of your best assets? This too can be answered through your gestures. Also, the same flow of body language only indicates that the parties involved are comfortable with each other.

Sometimes, this comes out naturally between individuals. Moreover, is there any particular posture that eases up self-esteem? Try to take notice how one stands or sits down when under a lot of pressure.

Indeed, proper poise is efficient. In doubt of this? Why don't you give it a try the next time you feel down and forlorn. In such times, you stand or sit up straight, chin up and act as if you are not afraid to tackle anything. As a result, you will feel just like it. It is quite amazing actually.

Physical Interaction

If you do not want to be referred to as the agressive sort of person, then do not shake hands too hard or crush the other person's hand. The ideal handshake and deemed as proper is firm, while a weaker shake hand is said to convey how a weakling the person may be. Yes, handshakes tell different opinions about you as it is the most practiced form of body contact.

Understandably, individuals who grew up in a culture wherein body contact is apprehended as normal are more accepting and open to it. Therefore, make sure that your partner or whoever it is you are dating with is all right with body contact.

Basically, the male and the female species respond and react to body languages in varied ways. Hence, it is important that you know how to suit your movements based on whom you are dealing with. Otherwise, you may unknowingly and unintentionally harm certain relationships.

Finally, be more attentive than you usually are. Try to read the signs and see if you get it right what the other individual wants to tell you.

Try to read the signals by interpreting body language.

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