Monday, September 14, 2009

To Play The Bad Boy Or Nice Guy Role?

By Adam Thomas

There are a couple of tough questions that people wonder in the dating world. The advice for one person might not be the same for someone else, so one thing that I will recommend is that you practice and practice some more. If something isnt working for you, it doesnt matter what some guru says, you have to try something else, even if its just a small adjustment. The trick is not finding what works for everyone, but what works for you more often than not. The randomness may throw you off so you have to be willing to test. In addition, what you are looking for will change the answers to these questions. If you want someone for a long term exclusive relationship, being a jerk doesnt have much benefit. If you are looking for a one night stand, you may find being a bad boy actually does have some benefits. With that said here are some questions and reasoning behind the basic answers.

The age-old dilemma, to buy the date dinner? Lets see, this can get messy if we do not stick to business at hand. The best, good-guy in the dating scene would not even think about asking a woman out for a dinner date and not want to cover the entire meal experience. I mean, come-on, this is rudimentary first-lesson stuff that should be ingrained in the heads of every young man venturing out into the big wide world of public mating.

You have to buy the meal, tip the wait-staff, all of them and do not be cheap, open the doors and kiss her good night. Do not forget to thank her for a beautiful time and ask if you could take her out for sushi next time? Soon you will be the date master.

Another question that may arise is, which way is the best? Be a nice guy, or play the bad guy role? This age old question has been on the dating table scene for many a moon and now we are in the age of technology and this makes that question, easier.

The internet allows one to be anyone you wish you were. This topic is nice, so we will keep that in mind. The reality of the question is that yes, you need to be nice in order to gain the attention of any good woman. Think about it, how long would you stick around with a mean evil and down right nasty girl? Lets see, looking at my Mickey Mouse watch, there, five seconds, thats about it. You must be nice, it is a very important quality to possess especially in the dating scene. Be nice and get the girl of you're dreams.

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