Tuesday, September 22, 2009

Why Is It That Nice Guys Finish Last?

By Maurice Jackson

There are many reasons that nice guys finish last, but this article explains some of the most common ones. It is a very common misconception the many guys make when they are new to dating women that they should constantly be 'nice' all the time. While this might sound a bit peculiar to some people, here are the reasons why this is actually the case.

Firstly, being excessively nice all the time often makes you come across as insecure. It is as though you are trying to cover up something. If you are not being yourself, that is one of the most common reasons why women get put off.

To a degree, women tend to like manly men. To assert your manliness, you do need to have a degree of power. This does not mean necessarily that you should be completely the boss of the relationship, but it does mean that you need to have control over yourself and appear confident.

Women are not at all interested in men there don't appear confident, and if you can't come across as in control of your own destiny and take some pride in yourself, then they're going to be turned off right away.

A degree of forcefulness, control and the chaser all things of women tend to love. Being in control of the situation before you make your approach and during your approach is the key to success. You will also save a lot of aggro if you don't give her the power to reject you.

Always, nice guys finish last, simply because they are not doing things in the right way. They're trying to take too much notice and pay too much attention to the women in question and this comes across as obsessive and if anything, outright pushy. This is enough to turn any normal woman off completely.

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