Saturday, September 5, 2009

Things I Have Learned From Ladies Who Have Dumped Me

By Olivia Harper

Okay, I'll admit, I've been dumped. More than once. More than I would like to confess, essentially. And, even though it hurt quite a lot each time, I need to say that I have grown here are some things I've learned from women who ve dumped me.

Things I've Learned from Ladies Who ve Dumped Me one : It takes 2.

Often with the agony and heartbreak of a break up, it is easy to blame the other person for your misery. But the truth is that if the relationship was no longer working, you were part of the issue. Evaluate what went on so you can apply the lessons to your next relationship.

Things I've Learned from Girls Who ve Dumped Me two : Give girls their personal space.

Women like to hug and cuddle. They may seem to always be around. But they need their private space too. Men have a propensity to be possessive. We'd like to keep watch on where they're going and what they're doing there. If any woman has ever cheated on you, this instinct gets stronger. But, trust is a key element in a relationship. When you attack her personal space, you send the message that you do not trust your girl. This could simply lead to the end of the relationship.

Things I have Learned from Girls Who ve Dumped Me #3: You get stronger over time.

When you wake up in the morning and the hurt's so real, you can believe that you are going to never get over the break up. But the truth is that not only does time heal all agony, but you may appear from the break up a stronger person. As thinker Frederick Nietzsche declared, "that which doesn't kill me only makes me stronger."

Things I have Learned from Girls Who ve Dumped Me four : It's okay if it wasn't intended to be.

Coming to accept that a relationship wasn't supposed to be is a key factor in healing. If you had started projecting your relationship into the future - considering marriage, thinking about kids - and then the lady you were with broke everything off, consider it a blessing. It's miles better to end a relationship that wasn't intended to be earlier instead of later.

Things I have Learned from Ladies Who ve Dumped Me 5 : Good things don't happen unless you make them happen.

Finally, the last lesson I wish to share with you is that you cannot control what occurred, but you can control to how you react to what occurred. If you want good things to occur in the future, you have to make them happen.

That means getting back on the pony. Go out, meet new ladies. Have a bit of fun. Eventually, you will find another relationship. And, if you have followed the advice in this article about things I've learned from women who ve dumped me, the relationship will be even better and stronger than the last one.

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